The kumquat tree missed them. |
I started apologizing (by this time his eight-year-old
sister was beside him, watching me scare my grandchildren with my wailing). Choking on my sobs, I told them, “Savta is just so happy to see you at my home. I missed you all
so much. My house missed you. My kumquat tree missed you. The toys missed you.
I'm sorry. I can’t stop crying, because I am grateful.”
Absolutely frozen, they watched me in silence - a bit afraid,
a bit weirded out, a bit pity-filled for Savta. And I realized that the past
three months have been harder on me than I realized.
Like the rest of you, I spent more than two months in
self-isolation – not leaving the house, not seeing my friends or family, not participating
in any real-world activities. I zoomed. I whatsapped. I facebooked. I even worked a little. B”H for my heroic husband (ad 120 beyachad) and
wonderful kids who shopped for us. B"H for exciting screen door visits.
HEY, WHERE IS EVERYBODY?
Mostly, I watched a deserted world at my front door, as I prayed in my rocking chair. (Wow, that does sound like an old lady from some novel, but truthfully, we had been left behind in a ghost town.)
And I observed, as life transformed over the weeks - from me
alone with my birds, to one person walking through the street on Shabbat, to
three kids and a dog, to a few couples and a family here and there, and then this
past week, voila…a busy exciting bustle passing my door.
I did everything I was told. The day the Health Ministry
said we could go out (of course, with our masks), I tremulously and hesitatingly
walked out my door, holding my brave husband’s hand. When they said we could
visit our grandchildren, but at a distance, my husband and I jumped in the car
and visited every single grand/kid immediately. We even brought “We-love-balloons.”
We just wanted to see their faces in living color sans-screen, even if not up
close.
THE SHOCK OF REALITY
But nothing could prepare me for the sight of my cherished little people climbing up my wall. I am still overcome with emotion, thinking how much we (the protected part of the population) have suffered more than the rest of the world at-large from lack of interaction with our grandchildren.Thank G-d, they are back in our lives.
An amazing outdoor get-together (with masks, except for eating and smiling.) |
And still, we older folks probably won’t totally heal until that day comes when we
can hug those little people that we love and smother them with kisses. May it come soon.
PS - thank you to the folks who worked to keep us healthy and safe. xoxo
PS - thank you to the folks who worked to keep us healthy and safe. xoxo