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| Our Steps Ahead Tap Troupe on Stage in "Dames of the Dance 10 - Legacy" |
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| Fayge and I on stage in DAMES 1, more than 10 years ago. |
We both began tapping ten years ago (really 11). I was just
past 50 and she a drop older. Who begins tapping at 50? That’s when tap dancers
are retiring. But my doctor told me that I had osteoporosis and dancing would
be good for me. So, Ginger Rogers just had to move aside. Two minutes ago, I
called Fayge to ask why she started tap dancing. Her answer was simple, “Because
you did.”
Wow, I never knew that. Mwa, Fayge, love you!
Well, thanks to our patient talented teacher/ choreographer Judy Kizer, we learned amazing steps and have gotten better and
more proficient year by year. We’ve also gotten older. How come no one else in
our troupe has aged? Really!
We come to rehearsal with pains in our knees or toes. Fayge
has sciatica. I have arthritis. But we keep tapping. And as long as our troupe
will have us, we’ll try to keep up.
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| Our tap troupe, our family, led by choreographer Judy Kizer |
Our tap troupe is our family. I think they’re keeping us
young to some extent. We feel better when the dozen of us are standing up together.
Fayge and I want to succeed because of them. We want to try harder. And when
all that fails, Fayge says she smiles, and that’s all that anyone cares about.
By all accounts, dancing is supposed to reduce your blood
pressure. That might well be true. I hope it’s strengthening my bones, like my
doctor promised. It’s thought to keep your brain sharp, prevent Alzheimer’s and
dementia. I hope that’s correct, but when we’re learning a step, I always worry,
“Oh my gosh, oh my gosh, I don’t know what’s next!! Help help help.” B”H,
somehow when we perform, all the steps and formations come to me (and if they
don’t, some dancer that I love pushes or pulls me to the right place).
JE SUIS UNE DANSEUSE
I am a tapper. Tap dancing is what I do. It’s part of my
identity. My tap bag is always ready. When I pick it up and rush off to rehearsal, I can’t
help but hold back the smile I feel taking over my face. I can’t wait to see my
dancing pals. I can’t wait for our group hug. I can’t wait to praise each one
for the amazing way she executed a step.
Last year, I injured my knee. I could hardly stand. I lamented
to my husband, “Maybe I should quit. What good is a dancer who can’t stand up?”
“Never quit,” he said. “Always dance. Never quit.” I actually listened to him,
and although I could only stand for ten minutes of our 60-minute class, I kept
going. B”H, my knee healed. I’m still making up from a year of injury, but I persevere.
Fayge keeps going too. She kvetches and I krich,
but we do it on the dance floor.
Last week, we completed a fabulastic season of dance with
the production “Dames of the Dance 10 – Legacy.” The dances were more than
spectacular. The dancers more than gorgeous. We even received praise from respected
columnist Barbara Sofer: http://www.jpost.com/Opinion/Dancing-grandmas-543899
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| Fayge and I on stage in this year's DAMES. |
We danced with uber-talented teenagers, with magnificent ballerinas, sexy
belly dancers, exotic Bollywood dancers, energetic hip hoppers. They were all
marvelous and duly praised. And what got surprise acclaim by Barbara Sofer and our audience, as well? Our dancing grandmas!
Maybe our grannies gave audience members hope that quality of life, creativity, friendship, fun and achievement continue after 60. Maybe we were just funny. Whatever the reason, we were dancing!
Maybe our grannies gave audience members hope that quality of life, creativity, friendship, fun and achievement continue after 60. Maybe we were just funny. Whatever the reason, we were dancing!
So, when the heart says 'yes', do everything possible for as
long as you can to make the body say 'yes' too.
